You can’t show up or please everybody …

You can’t show up or please everybody …

If experiences in life have asked you to cover your sensitivity with hardness you will experience pain. If your experiences have taught you to hyper-attune to people and forget yourself, there will be pain. If trauma has taught you that tending to everyone’s needs and...
Compassion is not enabling…

Compassion is not enabling…

A recent learning for me on compassion is that it can be hard and something to work at when you’re in difficult situations. To realise we all have wounds and keep a gentle heart in times of challenge, of feeling unsafe around certain people or in general triggered...
Don’t waste your time …

Don’t waste your time …

What we hold space for whether it be perceived as wanting it or not means there is something in us that seeks to learn, complete, have a need met, or let go of something internally. Learning to find the quiet spaces, to stop justifying, stop going down those one-way...

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